Grand Familia or Auto Theft

So your friend is now on the phone telling you about how serious this problem is, but never stated the problem. He has never acted this way before, and he's scaring you. Now you have left the party, to meet up. He meets you on a beach just to tell you he likes you, but you're married. The waves and wind are literally scaring you more than him admitting this to you. Then you think harder, do I like him, or is it just caring and loyal feelings?